Goodness of socialnetworking

Social networking

Social networking has been a stigma for some people.And sometimes it is justified also owing to the news the social networking has been in.

In India the tech savvy youngsters are the one who follow social networking as a religion.
We have hate pages again in the name of religion, movies, personalities.
Most of the people who have been benefited from the social networking are the one looking for relationship.

Some of the positive things i see that of social networking is does help to build a social status among your peers

It is also a boom for advertising especially with e-eCommerce growing up...

But there are some things that i have seen was very positive outcome of this social networking

One being The Modi Wave i guess it was the social networking site were Some individuals felt India needs a development change and the Gujarat model made intellectuals predict that the Gujarat model if applied to entire India will help India develop too..
This information was being shared in the social networking sites, which in turn created a awareness.
This awareness was seed which grew into a tree through Media .
As India had  9.7 crores new voters and most of them were social network users at least in the urban India.

This is where BJP caught up the fact and the steps that were taken was on time and tremendous even after internal conflicts. Modi was projected as Prime Ministerial Candidate.
And today one can see the results

As was the case of Nirbhaya the rape victim of 16th Feb. The awareness was the trigger and rest is the history..though many girls have been raped before....

 The Latest news being that of a British teenager Stephen Sutton who diagnosed with bowel cancer has raised more than $5 million for charity after his fund raising campaign went viral on social media.
Though he is not alive now  but the impression he left behind is remarkable.

If this is what social media does to a society...then Social Media is the best thing that has happened.

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

One of the biggest hits in the century is the sitcom series F.R.I.E.N.D.S I am sure Most of you would like the series.
I Love it a Lot.

My favorite character is Phoebe.
Why i like her? Just imagine the problems that she has been through is something that we can never imagine.But she is the one who can unite all the friends..
Her only aim being to get a proper family.



Dear reader i would like to know your favorite character and why?

The Plot which according to me kept the viewers glued to television is the on off relationship between Rachel and Ross.I guess the innocence of Rachel was enjoyed by all..

Highlights of the Show

The subtle comedy by Chandler btw I Had a crush on him.
Janice entry would always bring a smile to my face at the same time i would say 'OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!' the Janice Way.

Joeys Pick up line "How You Doin".
Monica's crazy perfectness and the character to please everybody are something everybody might enjoy.

Ross's Dinosaurs.

The series made me long for the same kind of friendship.If such were the friends one could face any problem in his life

Please share your favorite FRIENDS moments.

Friendship-The healer..

Dearest Reader...The views expressed in this blog is completely for a interactive purpose..The views aren't biased nor judgmental..Please comment and form a great interaction...

Friendship-The Healer

Dear reader please comment names of  your friends who changed your life, who bought positiveness in your life.
If you wish also give their email ids. I will give them wishes they will feel top of the world.

If you have no such friends name coming to your mind then i am sorry to say that you are one of the unluckiest person in this world..

When a person is first introduced in this world he has his family by his side..There may be rarely anyone who has a perfect famliy..but the point is you never have a chance to abandon this family..One has to accept what he has in his life and move forward.

Easier said than done....But it is actually easy if you have friends. 

Family is the one that pushes its decision on you, while Friend are the one who help you make you decision...

Family expects to get happiness from you, Friends always tries to give you happiness..


Family wants create you into a personality that they want while friends accept you for ho you are and what you are..

If you are unlucky person and still dont have that friend..PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE YOU THAT FRIEND WHO CAN GIVE YOU HAPPINNESS

Friends Please comment on what your friends did and how they changes your life...

Since i have touched the friendship topic.I Feel the blog will be incomplete without me talking abt my favroutie sitcom series FRIENDS..so my next blog is about that.

Virtual Love

Virtual Love

Dear reader my opinion is not judgmental in any manner all my post are meant to have a interaction and build a good community 
So please comment


We often hear words world being a global village...thanks to internet and low cost telephone tariff...one search and also find love within the four walls..

Computers and mobile phone being basic need of man today, love can be easily found....But how real this feeling is? is big question.
Virtual Relationship is concept more related to blind date of the west, but the communication between the persons here are very high as far as it leads to addiction.Everyday has to begin with good morning on phone either through text (Thanks to many texting apps too) or call.Everything you do on a day has to have consent of your boyfriend/girlfriend...the time that is spend in real(i.e in a physical world) is as less as an hour..one really doubts about the credibility and stability of these relationships.

The more is the concern about the age group that are involved in these virtual realtionship..The age group involved are from 10 to 60.
If some one in the range of 50-60 is involved in such relationship without cheating their family is thoroughly acceptably.

But how do a mature person react to this virtual relationship of a 10 to 14 year old.It is easy for them to enter into to such relationship. But when situation arises of an exit how does these virtual relation affect the mentality of our youth, as these kind of relationship which has become very common..
The following being the main concern

1. Are they guided properly.
2. As most of these relationships are secret.
3. Do they have a healthy mind set.

One more issue that leads to acceptability of a virtual relationship is a invisible peer pressure. When one of your peer is always on phone relaying each and every moments of their life to their boy griend/girl friend,On one side a person can feel irritated but also at the same time intimidated to have the same kind of relationship..


Dear reader my opinion is not judgmental in any manner all my post are meant to have a interaction and build a good community 
So please comment

True Love

True Love

Sacha Pyaar..The favrouite word of hindi film industry in 80's 90's...Now my doubt is does it really exists...I would like you to comment

Coming to my point of view..i feel it is the most overated concept in india as well as indian cinema..If a couple ends up in a relation it is due to attraction which we term as love...The attarction is so beautiful that the couple wants it more thats when they committed in the form of marriage...They were happily married that is the end of story in reel life..In real life if the couples are compatible they are happilly married...If they are not they manage to be happy on occasions..

Now coming to the western relationship...When the couples are attracted they date..if they want it to last longer they become boy friend girlfriend...if they feel all is going well...they get engaged...if still all is well they get married....

I haven't talked about kids may be i will cover it in some other topic..

But coming back on track...So what is true love if there is a concept called as true love there must be false love...Now comes the bigger question what is false love..

May be we kept refering the commitment as true love....and if some one is not committed then it is false love..but id there is compatability then sure there is commitement..so over all once the attraction ends and if the couple is still compatable then that is love ther is nothing true or false in a love...

Comments are highly recomended...

First Love

First Love

FIRST LOVE!!!!!!!! hmmmm.......hello readers first of all thanks for reading...

.and how do you feel when your hear this word...Please do comment..and lets make it interactive......
So how do i feel about this...for me it is a just a random feeling which is created by hormones as said by our own Munnabai (A charecter in hindi movie Lage Raho Munnabhai ) chemical Locha Boss!!!...

But it creates wonder right???? You feel your are beautiful person in this world..You feel this is true love...you feel top of the world.. world is greener...pretty...sometimes you even love only this person and forget about the other people around you....You even hate them if they oppose you..
But i really wonder for how many days this feeling lasts??
And why does this feeling end...
It should last for a long or should it end for the better

Waiting for your comments......

To start off with me i felt a current flow through my body and it last for a second or two..Its was only once that it happened ..was it hormone or gods way of telling you something...